wonder
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From: Phoenix, AZ
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Joined: 06-25-2006
Posts: 196
From: virginia beach, virginia
Ok, that's it.....
I was one member that sent you a PM with SUGGESTIONS, to help.
Then you come "crying" here, that you are being verbally abused elsewhere because your Hispanic. That is something that we, as members, cannot control. If you ask for suggestions, that's one thing. But to add it to your list of complaints against the members of this forum....it's totally irrelevant. You can't change you ethnicity and no ones asking you to.
I'm from a minority group also, and I took a lot of abuse growing up because my mother was VERY dark skinned...people thought I was a child of mixed origins. Which in my day, was a real taboo. But, you "cowboy-up" and make the best of it. Many members here can probably relate worse stories. But, I'm dropping it.
With further consideration, Chris, maybe you have some problems. You say your mother is picking on you, your school mates are picking on you, you only have one friend. Chris, you are in a time of your life that "things" are going to appear difficult...and in some cases will be. But you will get through them if you recognize your faults and acknowledge peoples suggestions. Accept the responsibility of your own actions. I would say you need to assess who you are and what your attitudes are.
Chris....If you wish to fly with eagles, you need to be one.
I'm done.
I was one member that sent you a PM with SUGGESTIONS, to help.
Then you come "crying" here, that you are being verbally abused elsewhere because your Hispanic. That is something that we, as members, cannot control. If you ask for suggestions, that's one thing. But to add it to your list of complaints against the members of this forum....it's totally irrelevant. You can't change you ethnicity and no ones asking you to.
I'm from a minority group also, and I took a lot of abuse growing up because my mother was VERY dark skinned...people thought I was a child of mixed origins. Which in my day, was a real taboo. But, you "cowboy-up" and make the best of it. Many members here can probably relate worse stories. But, I'm dropping it.
With further consideration, Chris, maybe you have some problems. You say your mother is picking on you, your school mates are picking on you, you only have one friend. Chris, you are in a time of your life that "things" are going to appear difficult...and in some cases will be. But you will get through them if you recognize your faults and acknowledge peoples suggestions. Accept the responsibility of your own actions. I would say you need to assess who you are and what your attitudes are.
Chris....If you wish to fly with eagles, you need to be one.
I'm done.
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From: virginia beach, virginia
do you ever get said anything because your mexican. if you do, que les digo.
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Then Chris...
Phrase your questions as questions. Don't acuse and point fingers.
But, I will say by your last 3 posts, you did not heed suggestions from me (and frankly, someone else has noticed your same problems).
Now, my suggestion is to cool off, take some deep breaths, refrain from posting anything for a day or so, and think about the issues you raised and some members discussed.
And sorry, I misunderstood about your mom. But, in your post that started this thread...count 3 periods and read the next sentence. Do you see where the idea came from???
Phrase your questions as questions. Don't acuse and point fingers.
But, I will say by your last 3 posts, you did not heed suggestions from me (and frankly, someone else has noticed your same problems).
Now, my suggestion is to cool off, take some deep breaths, refrain from posting anything for a day or so, and think about the issues you raised and some members discussed.
And sorry, I misunderstood about your mom. But, in your post that started this thread...count 3 periods and read the next sentence. Do you see where the idea came from???
