its hard to "respect" your elders when they are the ones causing the problems!

 

Don't be a lumper..... we are not all the same

 

i know i know, im just getting worked up

 

Not fussing... just sayin'

 

You and the girlfriend should sever all ties with this person. Problem solved!

Confrontations very rarely turn out for the good.

 

Just put his LIGHTS out you will never hear from again.

 

Confrontations usually turn out bad or even deadly. Blow it off and move on.

 

What?

 

I'm old too but I say he wants in Her pants, why else would He be badmouthing you, besides to make His old ass look better. I say ignore the lonely old man, and ask your Pastor about it there may be a pattern. Just cause He goes to Church doesn't make a saint, besides the Bible say's don't bear false witness against your neighbor. Don't confront Him without a witness, it could be part of His plan.

 

ive been talking to my girlfriend about it all day. all she will say is "leave it alone and forget about it. i dont want you to mess up our friendship and my chance at getting a job while i go to school." this has been the longest day at work! im about to snap!!! im starting to wonder now if it was a mistake buying an engagement ring last night!!!