Alright added a quart, checked again. (Car started, level, and warmed up) nothing came out. Added another quart and started. Warmed up. Checked the fluid. This time lots came out so I reckon it had to much. I just left the check open until it was at about a steady drip and closed it. Still can't reverse!

 

It might be a solenoid problem or a TCM problem, I'd inspect the harness connections at the TCM

 

the harness and all connections around the TCM seem to be fine. Is there a way to test the TCM itself? I have a code checker on the way if that will help me. Should be here Wednesday.