Well the dealer I am using has all 5 sitting on their shelf and has not shipped them back. So I know those one's are not making the route.

 

OMG, I can't believe it, got a call from my dealer yesterday and he said my armrest was in and is the correct one
Got it installed over lunch today, so I will have to put the wife's back into her car when I get home tonight.
The dealer apparently forgot to cancel one of his reorders, because he got 2 of them in.

Anyway, this is the end of a 3 month long project.

Did the rest of you that kept getting the wrong one gets yours yet?

 

Seven armrests and six months later I finally got the correct armrest!