For anyones info, 2010-2012 Mailbu steering wheel will not work as a bolt in replacement. The horn mounts are different. I haven't decided if I'm going to lose $40 on shipping it back, or to try and make it work and possibly lose $100 if I cant. Wheel cost $80 plus $20 for shipping.
I also found the thread on remote start without AP3, read five or six pages, and went to town. Only after being unsuccessful did I read the entire 19 page thread to find out it just won't work. So, it's been kind of a rough day